After a while, porn can get a little boring. When you’re looking to make things a bit more interactive, dating sites can help. We’ve come up with a list of options, plus one non-dating choice. But before clicking through consider yourself warned: NSFW content awaits.
Best for those with a fetish
ALT
A BDSM, bondage, and fetish dating site for those looking to explore their boundaries with other like-minded, consenting adults.
It’s no secret that people love porn, what with 40 million Americans regularly visiting porn sites such as Pornhub — which saw 42 billion site visits in 2019 alone. With just a few clicks on your smartphone, tablet, or computer, you can enjoy an endless world of hot and steamy images and videos in every conceivable genre. Even in today’s social distancing climate, your dating and sex life doesn’t need to dry up or be boring.
But with recent allegations of child pornography, revenge porn, and rape coming out against the parent company of Pornhub — one of the largest players in the free porn game — it might be time for some alternative programming.
If you like porn but want to make things a bit more interactive, these are some popular dating sites that will help you achieve that. There’s a little something for everyone, whether you’re looking to explore your kinky fantasies, make a lasting romantic connection, are looking for senior love, simply want to hook up, or want to keep things safely socially distanced and just cam and chat. Like Pornhub, all of these sites are free to use, with some offering various levels of paid membership to unlock bonus features.
And if all you like are free videos with easy to search categories like Pornhub offers, there’s even some of those on our list too. While these sites are by no means perfect and some of them are pretty raunchy, here’s the scoop on what you’re getting yourself into.
Before clicking through consider yourself warned: NSFW content awaits.
AdultFriendFinder
If you’re looking for a little bit more than just friendship, this site is at your service as the world’s largest adult dating and hookup site.-
Free version:
Yes -
Gold:
$35.95 per month
ALT
A BDSM, bondage, and fetish dating site for those looking to explore their boundaries with other like-minded, consenting adults.-
Free version:
Yes -
Silver:
$19.95 per month -
Gold:
$29.95 per month
BDSM is a popular category on Pornhub, making this site a great alternative for those looking to make things a bit more interactive. Free to join, you can specify exactly who you’re looking to play with. There are over 1-million Alt.com members to choose from, whether you’re looking for a date, want to play over cam, or get together in person. Those looking for fetish play and fun will also enjoy connecting with others who share their particular kink. There are chat rooms for both Canada and U.S. based adults, as well as thousands of member-generated XXX videos for your viewing pleasure.
GetItOn
Cut right to the chase with this community of like-minded people who are down to get down.-
Free version:
Yes -
Enhanced chat messages:
$19.95 per month -
Gold:
$29.95 per month
Passion
This ain’t your grandma’s dating site.-
Free version:
Yes -
Credits:
From $0.02 per credit -
Adult Movies:
$18.95 per month -
Private Chatroom:
$9.95 per month -
Gold:
$27.95 per month
If hooking up or sexting with someone is your goal, then a site like Passion has been designed to deliver just that. Membership is free and it takes just minutes to sign up, so you can get to mingling with members and browsing steamy pics ASAP. Like other sites on this list, there are sexy videos and a blog feature that allows you to talk openly about what you’re into — a great way to find other like-minded people — plus a live cam feature. Passion has more than 67 million members in the United States alone, with more than 100,000 members online at any given time.
OutPersonals
Get a little flirty with other dudes seeking dudes.-
Free version:
Yes -
Silver:
$22.95 per month -
Gold:
$34.95 per month
Calling all bears, twinks, otters, and more: OutPersonals give you instant access to thousands of the gay and bi personal ads, photos, and chatrooms so you never have a problem finding other men seeking men. Members can upload steamy profile videos, browse photos of hot guys, or enjoy a little solo action via member curated blogs and an online magazine. This is a site geared toward those seeking out sex, so you probably won’t meet your soulmate here — or maybe you will?
PlayWithMe
NOTE: Not a dating site, but worth mentioning as an alternative to Pornhub.-
Free version:
Yes -
Pricing:
Models set their own prices per minute
Similar to Pornhub, PlayWithMe offers you the ability to view live porn and sex cams featuring adult models. Unlike other options on this list, PlayWithMe is not a dating site, but it does give you the opportunity to chat with your favorites while they put on a private show. Quick and easy filters let you view content by male, female, couples, and transgender performers. There is a choice of different regions and even languages for added convenience. Membership is free and takes just minutes to sign up.
Cams
NOTE: Not a dating site, but worth mentioning as an alternative to Pornhub.-
Free version:
Yes -
Credits:
From $0.12 per credit -
Premiere:
$19.99 per month
If you prefer an online experience to an in-person encounter, Cams.com offers thousands of free and private adult sex cams for your entertainment, just like Pornhub. An upgraded membership lets you purchase tokens for unlimited viewing and chatting with models, the ability to direct action in private shows, and to receive special attention from models within the chat feature of a show. Though it’s not a dating site like others on this list, it’ll provide a worthy alternative to Pornhub.